Encouragement for Today

[Judy Harder]

December 15, 2009

The Ultimate Gift

Gina Parcells, She Speaks! Graduate

"...God has given us eternal life, and this life is in His Son." 1 John 5:11b (NASB)
         
Devotion:

Christmas day at my house had become all about the presents.  The décor, the shopping, the parties, the tree...it all culminated with those gifts when it should be culminating with the Gift. Something needed to change.

What can I do to see Jesus as a gift, and to help my family see Him as well? I wondered. A light bulb went on in my head, about the same time the light strand went out on my tree, and a plan was birthed.

Phase one:  Baby Jesus was removed from the displayed nativity set.  He was carefully boxed and wrapped in my fanciest paper, intentionally labeled with a specific name, and gingerly hidden under the myriad of gifts at the foot of our tree. 

Phase two: During our family gift exchange on Christmas morning, the disguised gift was handed to my unsuspecting daughter, the named recipient, just one of her many gifts.  It could have been an I-pod or a sweater or another book...after all, there was no host of angels announcing the valuable contents. But knowing what I knew, I watched with great anticipation as she opened it. 

Phase three:  A bewildered look came across her face. Haley didn't speak. I asked, "Haley, what did you get?"

"I got Jesus."

An entire family discussion ensued as we discussed the ultimate Gift in the midst of all of our other presents.  We compared the gift of Jesus with other gifts that would wear out, that would be outgrown, and that would eventually lose appeal. 

We began to ask and answer lots of questions such as:

What is a gift?  What is the purpose of a gift?  What can we know about the giver of the gift?  Why might the giver choose to give a gift to you specifically?

Together, we came up with truths about God...that He gave us the Gift that we need, that we want, and that we could never afford to get for ourselves.  He wrapped that Gift in a blanket and gave - voluntarily, sacrificially, and lovingly - to each one of us, the named recipients of His greatest Gift.

We've invited Jesus back into Christmas to take His place as the perfect Gift that never stops giving.  I can hardly wait to experience today that same conversation this year as a new family member opens the box and announces, "I got Jesus!" 

Dear Lord, too many times I have excluded You from my Christmas and been satisfied with presents and stuff.  Let me not be content until I experience the gift of You in my heart.  Cause me to see You as the ultimate Gift.  In Jesus' Name, Amen.

Related Resources:

Immanuel: Praying the Names of God through the Christmas Season by Ann Spangler
Homespun Memories from the Heart by Karen Ehman, Kelly Hovermale and Trish Smith

Find more Christmas family traditions with P31 radio show A Cup of Christmas COCOA

Application Steps: 

Try wrapping up your nativity baby Jesus for a family member or a friend, and discuss the Gift He is during your gift exchange.

Print and store this page with your nativity set as a reminder next year to value Jesus as a gift.

Reflections: 

Have You Received the Ultimate Gift?

How can I help my family view Jesus as a Gift?

Power Verses:

Isaiah 9:6, "For a child will be born to us, a son will be given to us; and the government will rest on His shoulders; and His name will be called Wonderful Counselor, Mighty God, Eternal Father, Prince of Peace." (NASB)

John 3:16, "For God so loved the world, that He gave His only begotten Son, that whoever believes in Him should not perish, but have eternal life." (NASB)

Romans 6:23b, "... the free gift of God is eternal life in Christ Jesus our Lord." (NASB)

© 2009 by Gina Parcells. All rights reserved.

Proverbs 31 Ministries

616-G Matthews-Mint Hill Road

Matthews, NC 28105

www.proverbs31.org

[Judy Harder]

December 16, 2009

Investing in Strengths

Glynnis Whitwer

"For we are God's workmanship, created in Christ Jesus to do good works,

which God prepared in advance for us to do."

Ephesians 2:10 (NIV)
         
Devotion:

My 18-year-old son stepped on the stage, grabbed a guitar and turned to lead worship for the church youth group.  He looked so at ease that I grinned thinking how far my previously shy and distracted son had come.  It made me glad once more I hadn't listened to his piano teacher when Joshua was in first grade.

Even back then, Josh's love for music and innate abilities were obvious.  The child could hear a song once and sing back the melody line with ease.  So when his school opened a music academy, we saw it as the perfect opportunity to invest in what we believed was a God-given gift.  Piano was the natural choice since we had an unused piano at home.  We registered our little boy for the class, bought the level one book, and began classes. 

Week followed week, and Joshua struggled to sit still long enough to practice.  It took ongoing involvement on my part to redirect his focus back to the keys and book.  But we saw it as an investment and enjoyed the fruits of his labor when he learned the simple songs. It came as a surprise, then, when his piano teacher stopped to talk with me after his lesson one afternoon.   Perhaps I should have noticed the stressed look on her face and anticipated her next words, but I didn't. 

"Mrs. Whitwer," she said, "you are wasting your money."

She went on to explain that in her opinion, Josh was just too distracted for lessons and wasn't getting anything out of them.  We happened to disagree.  It was obvious though, she was not the teacher for our son.  After that experience, we could have been discouraged and quit.  But we knew God had placed something unique in our son, and just because other people didn't see it, didn't mean it wasn't there.  God gave my husband and me the responsibility to build upon what He had already started.  Not just so Josh would love music, but so Josh would be ready to fulfill whatever God's plans were for him. 

We continued to invest in Josh's love for music. In the early elementary years he sang in our church's children's choir.  When we lived in North Carolina for two years, he took a vocal class at a Christian music academy.  When he was old enough to play in the school band, he started playing bass guitar in both the regular and jazz bands. In 7th grade he started playing bass on a youth worship band, and in 8th grade he learned electric guitar.  Throughout those years we invested in occasional lessons, better equipment and lots of time with practice and concerts.   

Only God knows where Josh will end up with his musical ability.  He now leads a youth worship team at church, and has helped teach others beginning guitar so they can lead worship.  I just know it's my job to invest in this strength for as long as I can, and not worry about the end result.  And by investing in Josh's musical ability, it is my prayer that we have equipped him with other skills that will help him in the future, such as the disciplines of practice, perseverance, working with others, respect for authority, giving his best, and honoring God by using the abilities He has given. 

Were we wasting our money back then?  Absolutely not!  We learned a valuable lesson: Sometimes it takes perseverance, creativity and patience when investing in a child's strength.  Josh wasn't a musical prodigy, he occasionally forgot his guitar when going to band, and his dad and I had to remind him to practice.  And yet the gift of music was inside my son waiting to be developed and used for God's glory.  Helping to develop that skill was an act of obedience on our part.

What skills do you see waiting to be invested in and developed in your child, your spouse, or yourself? 

There was an interesting ending to the piano lesson experience.  At the final recital, about 25 kids took turns performing.  Finally it was Joshua's turn.  My little six-year-old walked up to the piano, sat down to play and carefully opened his music book.  Not only did he play his piece beautifully, but he was the ONLY child who sang while accompanying himself - and he sang in perfect pitch.   

All I could say was, "Praise God." 

Dear Lord, thank You for placing seeds of ability in all of us.  I know You see my potential, and You see potential in those I love.  Help me to see with Your eyes, and to have the wisdom to know how to encourage others. In Jesus' Name, Amen.

Related Resources:

When Your Child is Hurting by Glynnis Whitwer.  This is a great resource to help parents navigate the often challenging years of childhood.

Visit Glynnis's blog where she shares more tips for investing in your child's strengths.

Discover more about Your Child's Personality

Mining for Gold in the Heart of Your Child by Renee Swope

Application Steps: 

If you are parenting a child, identify one or two natural abilities he or she has.  Consider how you can invest in those strengths. 

How can you develop your own strengths and use them for God's glory? 

Reflections: 

Can you look back on your life and see early signs of natural talents that might have been overlooked by others?

What hinders parents from identifying and accepting their child's natural abilities?

Power Verses:

Colossians 3:23, "Whatever you do, work at it with all your heart, as working for the Lord, not for men..." (NIV)

Job 10:8, "Your hands shaped me and made me." (NIV)

© 2009 by Glynnis Whitwer. All rights reserved.

Proverbs 31 Ministries

616-G Matthews-Mint Hill Road

Matthews, NC 28105

www.proverbs31.org

[Judy Harder]

December 17, 2009

A Gut Honest Look at Love

Lysa TerKeurst

"...if I have faith that can move mountains, but have not love, I am nothing."

1 Corinthians 13:2 (NIV)
         
Devotion:

As the holidays approach, I have to be careful about developing an overly ideal view of love.  Sometimes I'm guilty of setting the expectations so high of what a 'love filled' Christmas should be that it dooms me to feeling disappointed and grumpy.  Ever been there?

Well, this year I am feeling challenged to look at love a little differently. I don't want to repeat a habit that I've had from the past where I expect unrealistic things from those I love.  I used to hold out the little cup of my heart to my husband, "Will you fill my empty spaces?  Will you do that one really romantic thing that makes me feel like I'm the most terrific and special woman in the world?"

Then I would hold it out to my children, "Will you fill up my empty spaces? Will you do something that makes me look really good as a mom so I'll feel a little more validated?"

Then I would hold it out to my friends, "Will you fill up my empty spaces? Will you provide something today that makes me feel more included and significant?"

Maybe Christmas is an odd time to consider such things.

Or, maybe this season celebrating Jesus is the perfect time to hit the reset button on my sometimes frail heart. Love is a tricky thing. Our hearts were created to crave it.  But misplaced expectations from love can wreak havoc in a person's heart.

God proclaims in 1 Corinthians 13:8 that love never fails. And in the quietness of my heart that verse makes me squirm a bit. I see love failing all the time. Or do I?

If my only view of love is what it will give me, love from others will fail me every time. It's not that love fails. It's that other people were never meant to be my God. Even a great husband, wonderful children and a thriving ministry can never truly fill me up, right all my wrongs, and soothe those deep insecurities.  Not at Christmas.  Not at any other time of the year.

No, I can't read 1 Corinthians chapter 13 with eyes hungry to see what love should give me and then demand it from those around me. I should read those steadfast Scriptures with the realization that this is the kind of love God gives to me.  And this is the kind of love I can choose to give to other people.

I can choose that my love will be patient. My love will be kind. My love won't keep a record of wrongs. (Ouch - that's a hard one, right?)

I can choose that my love will protect and persevere.

And I can choose to lay the cup of my heart at Jesus' feet and stop twirling, twirling, twirling...hoping- demanding- that those around me do things for me they were never meant to do.

Interestingly enough, when I read 1 Corinthians 13 again this morning I found an odd yet perfect verse toward the end of this chapter. "When I was a child, I talked like a child, I thought like a child, I reasoned like a child. When I became a man, I put childish ways behind me" (verse 11).

Yes indeed.  How funny I never connected that verse about putting away childish things with 1 Corinthians 13 - known as the chapter of love.  Oh how we have the propensity to grow in other areas while keeping such a childish, selfish view of love.

Love isn't what I have the opportunity to get from this world. Love is what I have the opportunity to give.  And I guess there's no more appropriate time to remember this than Christmas.

Dear Lord, thank You for the ability to see love in the proper way.  Help me to know how to be filled with Your love so I don't try to get others to fill my empty spaces.  Lord, give me wisdom with each of my relationships.  Make me a woman that properly lives the principals in 1 Corinthians 13. In Jesus' Name, Amen.

Related Resources:

Visit Lysa's blog for some great Bible verses and perspectives on God's love for us

Becoming More Than a Good Bible Study Girl by Lysa TerKeurst. There are several chapters in this book on this very topic.  Orders placed with Proverbs 31 Ministries today will be autographed by Lysa!  Why not order one for yourself and one for a friend!

What Happens When Women Say Yes to God by Lysa TerKeurst

Application Steps: 

Spend some time today asking God how you can get our cup filled with Him.  For me, I have to spend time reading the Bible and writing out verses where God's love for me is clearly expressed.  See some of those verses posted on my blog today by clicking here.

Reflections: 

We need to learn to live the love in 1 Corinthians 13.  But this doesn't mean we enable others to treat our love with disdain.  Sometimes boundaries need to be drawn in relationships to keep things healthy.  Choosing love doesn't mean letting others disrespect or abuse us. 

Are there some relationships in your life that need some healthy boundary lines drawn?  Are there some relationships where you need to get a pastor or Christian counselor involved?  Pray and ask God to reveal to you how to properly live the love described in 1 Corinthians 13 with the people in your life.

Power Verses:

1 Corinthians 13:4-8, "Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. Love never fails. But where there are prophecies, they will cease; where there are tongues, they will be stilled; where there is knowledge, it will pass away." (NIV) 

© 2009 by Lysa TerKeurst. All rights reserved.

Proverbs 31 Ministries

616-G Matthews-Mint Hill Road

Matthews, NC 28105

www.proverbs31.org

[Judy Harder]

December 18, 2009

Not the Same

Lynn Cowell

"When the people of the land come before the Lord at the appointed feasts, whoever enters by the north gate to worship is to go out the south gate; and whoever enters by the south gate is to go out the north gate. No one is to return through the gate by which he entered, but each is to go out the opposite gate." Ezekiel 46:9 (NIV)
         
Devotion:

As soon as my eyes opened I knew it was going to be one of "those" days. You know the type. The saying, "If mama ain't happy, ain't nobody happy" was created for days like this. I was sad, disappointed, frustrated and empty. I couldn't put my finger on why I felt this ball of emotions; I just knew I had to get out before everyone woke up and my feelings steered our day in the wrong direction.

I put on my tennis shoes, grabbed my keys and started out the front door. Though unsure of where I was going to run, I was certain of the length: far!  Far enough for me to come back a different person. What I needed was to get alone with Jesus and have Him fill me and exchange my negative emotions with His peace, truth and life.

As I started my run, old thoughts poured into my head. You are not beautiful. You are not special. Your life doesn't count. After years of reading the Truth, studying the Truth and even teaching the Truth, it was hard to believe I still struggled with these dark thoughts. I guess I shouldn't have expected the enemy to lie down and give up. He knows my weaknesses and all my buttons to push.

As lies poured in, I retrieved scriptures stored in my mind and heart. He sees me as beautiful. He says He is wild about me. He is more than enough for me. He is all I need.

Mulling over these precious chunks of God's Word, tears began to pour. This is what I needed. I didn't need more words of affirmation from my husband. I didn't need another pat on the back from a friend. I needed a new outpouring of love from my Love. I needed to be reminded of who He says I am, to give up the old lies and replace them with His Truths.

When we come into His presence, He fills us. The Lord changes us so that we are not the same as we were when we came to Him. Ezekiel 46:9 represents this exchange of old for new. The people of Israel were told when they came into the temple area to worship, they were to enter through one gate and exit through the opposite gate. So the same should be true with us; we are "not to go back as we came, but more holy, and heavenly, and spiritual" (Matthew Henry). As we enter into our special times with God, we need to come out the "opposite gate," different than the way we went in.

After an hour of running, crying and praying to God, I returned home a different woman. Now, I was ready. Ready to be the wife and mom I needed to be. Ready to be God's vessel to pour out. Being in the Lord's presence restored me. I had been filled and changed.
                                                                                                                                                                         
Dear Lord, I need You today. Living this life sometimes drains me and leaves me empty. As I come through Your gates and into Your presence, change me. Pour Your life and heart into me so that as I leave through the "opposite gate," I am not the same woman as when I came in.  In Jesus' Name, Amen.

Related Resources:

Pierced By the Word: 31 Meditations for Your Soul by John Piper

Visit Lynn's blog

Rain on Me: Devotions of Hope & Encouragement for Difficult Times by Holly Gerth

Application Steps: 

Do you need help coming into the Lord's presence? Play worship music and let God's truth pour into your heart. As it does, respond to Him. Speak words of praise for who He is and what He means to you.

Here I am Again, Lord, a free devotion, will encourage you as well.

Be real with Jesus even when your feelings are negative. Honesty with Him and ourselves allows room for Him to take us out of our "pit" and move us closer to Himself.

Find a place where you can "run" when you need to be with Jesus. Maybe it is your bedroom, porch or going for a walk. Go there regularly to meet with Him.

Reflections: 

What brings up old, negative thoughts? Harsh words with your husband? Rejection at work? Communication patterns in broken relationships? Begin to recognize these triggers so you can make a point to run to Jesus for truth each time they resurface. 

Power Verses:

Titus 3:5-7, "...He saved us through the washing of rebirth and renewal by the Holy Spirit, whom he poured out on us generously through Jesus Christ our Savior, so that, having been justified by his grace, we might become heirs having the hope of eternal life." (NIV)

Ephesians 4:21-22a, 23, "Since you have heard about Jesus and have learned the truth that comes from him, throw off your old sinful nature and your former way of life..let the Spirit renew your thoughts and attitudes." (NLT)

© 2009 by Lynn Cowell. All rights reserved.

Proverbs 31 Ministries

616-G Matthews-Mint Hill Road

Matthews, NC 28105

www.proverbs31.org

[Judy Harder]

December 21, 2009

While Shepherds Watched and Women Work

Karen Ehman

"So they hurried off and found Mary and Joseph, and the baby, who was lying in the manger. When they had seen him, they spread the word concerning what had been told them about this child, and all who heard it were amazed at what the shepherds said to them." Luke 2:16-18 (NIV)
       
Devotion:

"Tell me about the shepherds again mommy. It is my favoritist part!"  three-year-old Mitchell pleaded. It was a nightly December ritual; reading a Christmas book chosen from a basket perched underneath our tree. My mother began a tradition of giving us a nativity storybook each year. So we had many delightful volumes that illustrated the account of baby Jesus, the angels, shepherds and wise men.

Mitch's favorite part was always the shepherds. Ever since his chubby little fingers could grasp the pasteboard pages of the books, he'd pause and quizzically stare at the portraits of these rough and tumble Middle Eastern men wandering in the wilderness, watching over their flocks by night. In fact when the grandkids put on a Christmas pageant for Grandma and Grandpa each year, he begged to be cast as a shepherd. The director of the play, his older sister, obliged, even if one year he insisted on the shepherd making his grand entrance riding atop a John Deer tractor!

Watching my son's fascination with these customary characters prompted me to dig further into the lessons modern day moms can learn from the shepherds. After all, mothers have so much in common with them!

That first Christmas night, these humble and socially subservient men were busy going about their daily tasks. This included feeding and watering; prodding and protecting; nursing the injured and encouraging the timid. It also meant watching out for hungry predators that might hurt or kill their precious lambs. They had no idea when they heard the heavenly chorus that their lives were about to be changed forever. They may even have found the sudden interruption that night a strange inconvenience at first. After all, sheep need constant supervision. Taking their eyes off of them for even a moment might prove to be detrimental. Little did they know they were about to encounter a Person, wrapped in swaddling clothes and lying in a manger, who would better their lives for eternity and enable them to effectively shepherd as never before.

I think moms occasionally feel like modern-day, female shepherds. We certainly do our fair share of feeding, watering, prodding, protecting, nursing, encouraging and watching out for anything that might harm our own little lambs. And at times a mother's job is also dirty, sometimes unpleasant one with very few "atta girls!" and little social recognition.

But God in His boundless wisdom is waiting to interrupt our own ordinary lives.  We may not audibly hear the angelic chorus singing, but the message is still the same. Christ came to earth to seek and save the lost; to offer hope and new life for all those willing to suspend their daily duties and turn their hearts to Him. And God longs for us, like the shepherds, to tell others of the amazing story of the Holy Child.

So, in the midst of this busy week, will you stop? Put down the tinsel; discontinue the decorating; forgo the mending on the pageant costume and cease stirring the cookie batter. Turn down the yuletide carols and get completely alone and silent.

Can you hear the angels' magnificent melody? Deep within their chorus God is calling out to us; humble, common you and me. He longs to interrupt our daily routine to introduce us to Someone extraordinary; the Christ-child who has a perfect place planned for ordinary women in His-story.

Will you pause, ponder, and then, like the shepherds, go tell others about this remarkable Babe? You'll be helping to restate the timeless message:

"I bring you good news of great joy that will be for all the people. Today in the town of David a Savior has been born to you; he is Christ the Lord" (Luke 2:10b-11, NIV).
                                                                                                                                                                       
Dear Lord, may I pause and ponder the wonder of You sending the Christ-child to earth. May I lovingly tell others of Your perfect, sacrificial Son. In Jesus' Name, Amen.

Related Resources:

Do You Know Him?

The 3 Wise Women: A Christmas Reflection by Christian Ditchfield

For ideas to center your heart on Jesus and holiday traditions to teach your kids to do the same, and to enter to win a copy of her holiday book Homespun Memories for the Heart, visit Karen's blog

A Life that Says Welcome by Karen Ehman

Application Steps: 

What can you do at this hectic holiday time of year to pause and reflect on the real meaning of the season?

Reflections: 

In what other manner do you think women going about their family tasks are like shepherds tending sheep?

How can you creatively use this season to tell others about the marvelous news of Jesus Christ?

Power Verses:

Acts 10:36 "You know the message God sent to the people of Israel, telling the good news of peace through Jesus Christ, who is Lord of all." (NIV) 

Romans 10:14-15, "How then will they call on him in whom they have not believed? And how are they to believe in him of whom they have never heard? And how are they to hear without someone preaching? And how are they to preach unless they are sent? As it is written, 'How beautiful are the feet of those who preach the good news!'" (ESV)

© 2009 by Karen Ehman. All rights reserved.

Proverbs 31 Ministries

616-G Matthews-Mint Hill Road

Matthews, NC 28105

www.proverbs31.org

[Judy Harder]

December 22, 2009

A Mary Moment

Wendy Pope

"Elizabeth gave a glad cry and exclaimed to Mary, 'God has blessed you above all women, and your child is blessed.  Why am I so honored, that the mother of my Lord should visit me? ... You are blessed because you believed that the Lord would do what He said.'" Luke 1:42-45 (NLT)
         
Devotion:

Have you ever said "yes" to God for what you believed was the assignment of a lifetime?  When you said "yes" did you know you would never be the same again? I love the story of Mary - young, sweet, innocent Mary - who accepted the assignment of her lifetime.

I can only imagine what she was thinking when the angel Gabriel announced she would give birth to the Son of the Most High.  Mary was also given details of how this son would be conceived.  Without hesitation her response to this assignment of a lifetime was, "May it be to me as you have said" (Luke 1:38, NIV).

Mary did what most women do when something "big" happens, she ran to tell a gal pal. I wonder if she ran out of fear or excitement about what she had just experienced. Perhaps she ran to hide until she could get a handle on the situation. Or maybe she needed a hug from someone that loved her and could assure her that everything was going to be all right.

Scripture tells us she "hurried" on a 5-6 hour trip to Zechariah and Elizabeth's house - a  place of refuge. When she arrived at their home, her cousin Elizabeth's words confirmed that Mary indeed had been chosen to give birth to the long awaited Messiah. "In a loud voice she exclaimed: 'Blessed are you among women, and blessed is the child you will bear!  But why am I so favored, that the mother of my Lord should come to me? As soon as the sound of your greeting reached my ears, the baby in my womb leaped for joy. Blessed is she who has believed that what the Lord has said to her will be accomplished!'" (Luke 1:42-44, NIV). 

This was Mary's moment.  All that she believed of what the angel had spoken was affirmed.  In response, Mary praised God, saying, "My soul glorifies the Lord and my spirit rejoices in God my Savior, for he has been mindful of the humble state of his servant. From now on all generations will call me blessed, for the Mighty One has done great things for me—holy is his name" (Luke 1:46-49, NIV).

Has something like this ever happened to you? Has the Lord spoke to you through His Word and prayer and in your spirit you sensed Him telling you something that seemed outrageous? Has He asked you to say "yes" to an assignment that would change your life forever? You shook your head to loosen the cobwebs and push out anything possibly obstructing your hearing. You walked around bewildered for a couple days, wondering if you really heard right.  You replayed the scenario in your mind to get a clearer picture of the experience, but still could not get a handle on it.  Then out of the blue you received confirmation. God used a pastor, scripture, song, friend, family member, or a situation to confirm the word He spoke to your heart. If so, like Mary, have you responded with a song of praise to the Lord?

Is God speaking to you today about accepting a divine assignment? Is this devotion confirmation of your own "Mary moment"?

Or, maybe you are still waiting on your lifetime assignment.  God gives each assignment in His perfect timing.  Let's stay close to Him and His Word so we will be ready to say "yes" when He speaks.

Dear Lord, I celebrate with You the assignments you have for me, big and small. I reflect today on the "Mary moments" I've had.  With fear, trembling, and excitement, I wait on the next one.  You are a right-on-time God.  Thank You for choosing me to be part of Your story.  With each assignment, help me to respond like Mary by saying, "May it be to me as you have said." In Jesus' Name, Amen.

Related Resources:

Do You Know Him?

What Happens When Women Say Yes to God by Lysa TerKeurst

What to Do in the W.A.I.T.: Finding Contentment in God's Pause and Plans CD by Wendy Pope

i am not, but i know I AM by Louie Giglio

Visit Wendy's blog to share your "Mary moment," we would love to hear about it!   

Application Steps: 

Take time to answer this question: Is God speaking to me today about accepting a divine assignment? Is this devotion confirmation of my own "Mary moment"?

Read the full account of Mary's moment in Luke 1:26-45.  Read Mary's song of praise (46-55) aloud.  Praise the Lord for your "Mary moments," and those yet to come.

Visit Wendy's blog to inspire others with the story of your "Mary moment."

Reflections: 

Do I recognize when God is calling me to a task? Have I said "yes" in the past? Did I follow through with it?

Am I ready to say to the Lord, "May it be to me as you have said"?

Power Verses:

Psalm 139:13, "For you created my inmost being; you knit me together in my mother's womb." (NIV) 

Ephesians 2:10, "For we are God's workmanship, created in Christ Jesus to do good works, which God prepared in advance for us to do." (NIV)

© 2009 by Wendy Pope. All rights reserved.

Proverbs 31 Ministries

616-G Matthews-Mint Hill Road

Matthews, NC 28105

www.proverbs31.org

[Judy Harder]

December 23, 2009

Making a List and Checking It Twice

Amy Carroll

"Do not be anxious about anything, but in everything,

by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God."

Philippians 4:6 (NIV)
         
Devotion:

My kids are planners.  They are on the ball.  They look ahead and dream...at least when it comes to Christmas time! The rough drafts of their Christmas wish lists began somewhere around last March, but the final copies are now complete. Their father and me find great delight in hearing about their lists throughout the year and anticipating how we'll make their wishes come true. 

Did you know that our heavenly Father delights to hear our desires, too?

Somewhere along the line, I began to believe that it was "unspiritual" to pray for myself.  My prayers for others were fervent, but I thought that God would be especially pleased with my unselfishness if I left myself off the list.  Philippians 4:6 contradicts this notion, however.  God encourages His children to ask.  He delights to give to us just like we delight to give to our children and others.  In fact, Matthew 7:11 says, "If you, then, though you are evil, know how to give good gifts to your children, how much more will your Father in heaven give good gifts to those who ask him!" (NIV).

God's been teaching me that I should present my list to Him, but I'm also learning to ask carefully.  We've all seen how ugly it can get at Christmas with greedy, self-indulgent children.  They want it ALL, and they want it NOW.  Loving parents choose gifts carefully, though.  They would never give a gift to their child that was unsafe or could cause harm. 

Our Father is the same way.  He is the most extravagant gift-giver ever, but He gives with wisdom.  His desire is to give gifts that help us, His children, to learn and grow.  What are some of His great gifts?  Salvation from sin, protection from evil, the indwelling Holy Spirit, wisdom, purity, holiness, true freedom...these are some of the gifts that He loves to hear requested by His sons and daughters.   

There is one prayer that is always answered.  It is the prayer for God's will to be done. 

So, this Christmas let's make our lists long with our eyes fastened on praying for God's will.  Here's a little peek at my "grown up Christmas list:"  protection for my children, a greater love and desire to know Jesus, chances (and the courage) to share the glorious gospel of Jesus with others, blessings for the staff at my church, peace and love for my friends and their families, and wisdom to handle everyday life.  I rejoice to know that I can lay that list at my Father's feet with confidence that He is the giver of every good and perfect gift.

Dear Lord, I've left out my own personal requests for so long.  I know that often it's because of pride or self-sufficiency.  Sometimes it's just because I haven't trusted You enough.  Please help me to come to You with everything—joys, hurts, anxiety and needs.  In Jesus' Name, Amen.

Related Resources:

Visit Amy's blog

Intimacy with God: Your Daily Guide to Prayer by Tara Furman

P31 Woman magazine

Divine Prayers for Despairing Parents: Words to Pray When You Don't Know What to Say by Susanne Scheppmann

Application Steps: 

Make your own "grown up Christmas list."

Pray, and give your list to Jesus.

Reflections: 

Assess your list.  Are these gifts that would be within God's will?

Read and reflect on this prayer written for you!

Power Verses:

I Thessalonians 5:16-18, "Be joyful always; pray continually; give thanks in all circumstances, for this is God's will for you in Christ Jesus." (NIV)

Matthew 6:9-10, "This, then, is how you should pray: 'Our Father in heaven, hallowed be your name, your kingdom come, your will be done on earth as it is in heaven.'" (NIV)
 
© 2009 by Amy Carroll. All rights reserved.

Proverbs 31 Ministries

616-G Matthews-Mint Hill Road

Matthews, NC 28105

www.proverbs31.org

[Judy Harder]

December 24, 2009

Planning for the Presence of Jesus

Glynnis Whitwer

"But Martha was distracted by all the preparations that had to be made."

Luke 10:40 (NIV)
         
Devotion:

I tend to consider myself a "Martha" type personality.  And I don't mean Martha Stewart.  That Martha was ready for Christmas in October, I'm sure. 

No, I'm nothing like Martha Stewart.  In fact, a few years ago I didn't even manage to decorate the tree.  It had lights on it ONLY because it was a pre-lit tree! I managed to put a few gifts under it before Christmas because my dear children kept looking at me with big hopeful eyes, asking when I was going to wrap SOMETHING.  But that was it. No cards.  No Christmas concerts or caroling.  No trip to see lights.  Just a busy life made even busier. 

For those who know the Luke 10 story of Martha and her sister Mary, that's the Martha I'm talking about.  That Martha had the privilege of hosting Jesus in her home.  But instead of sitting at His feet, like her sister Mary did, Martha worked and complained to Jesus that Mary wasn't helping her. 

Let's put ourselves in that scene for a moment.  Jesus has come to YOUR house.  To visit YOU.  And not only are you too busy to spend some time with Him, but the time you do have you spend complaining.  You complain about "someone" not doing her job, and how you have to do all this work, and if only "someone" would help you then you could actually sit down and enjoy some time with Jesus and blah, blah, blah...

Martha wasted an amazing opportunity.  And many times, so do I.  She let the demands of every day overshadow the call of the divine.  In fact, Jesus gently chided Martha, and affirmed Mary's choice to sit and spend time with Him in the middle of all the work that had to be done.

In verse 42 we read that Jesus told Martha her sister did what was "needed."  So in Jesus' mind, whatever Martha was doing wasn't needed at that moment...whether it was to impress, pamper or comfort Him.  Jesus just wanted Martha to sit down and spend time with Him.

Imagine if you had travelled far to visit the home of a friend.  And in her desire to serve you, she never spends time with you.  Do you know anyone like that?  Don't you want to say, "Sit down. Relax.  All this stuff doesn't matter.  I came to spend time with you."

That's just what Jesus was saying to Martha.  In other words,

Martha, thank you for caring about my needs.  But, you don't have to worry so much.  There's only one thing I want right now, and that's to spend time with you.  Mary gets it.  Come sit down next to your sister.  The dishes will wait.   But you won't have this time with Me very much longer. 

Martha probably wasn't given much notice of Jesus' arrival, hence her rushing around.  We, however, have been.  Just as you would prepare for the arrival of a special guest to your home, I invite you to prepare for the presence of Jesus this Christmas.

Have you ever let the demands of the everyday pull you away from the divine?  Have you ever chosen a good thing over the best thing?   You're not alone.  Today, I invite you to set aside all the preparations and distractions and sit in the presence of Jesus. 

We don't have to do anything special to enjoy Jesus' company.  We just have to quiet ourselves from the busyness of the day, take a deep breath, and allow Jesus to fill our hearts with His joy and peace.  It can be sitting outside looking at the stars, listening to carols, or sipping a cup of coffee in front of a fire.  Just sit down with nothing else to do and invite Jesus to join you. 

When I think back about the scene recorded in Luke 10, between Martha and Mary, I can tell which sister had more peace in her life.  And it wasn't Martha.  This Christmas I definitely want to plan for the presence of Jesus - that's really all I need.

Dear Lord, thank You for the gift of Your son Jesus.  As I go through this Christmas and the upcoming year, please help me set priorities that are pleasing to You.  Help me remember to plan to enjoy the presence of Jesus more than I plan for the details.  In Jesus' Name, Amen.

Related Resources:

Dear Jesus: Seeking His Light in Your Life by Sarah Young

Visit Glynnis' blog where she shares tips for simplifying your holidays

Pursuing the Christ: 31 Morning and Evening Devotions for Christmastime

by Jennifer Kennedy Dean

For more encouragement on intentionally focusing on Christ during busy seasons, click here

Application Steps: 

Spend some time in prayer, asking God to show you His priorities for you this day and over the next year.  Write down one or two things God brings to mind.

Reflections: 

In holiday seasons past, when have you experienced the presence of Jesus most?  Be specific.

How does time alone with Jesus change you?

Power Verses:

Luke 10:41-42, "'Martha, Martha,' the Lord answered, 'you are worried and upset about many things, but only one thing is needed. Mary has chosen what is better, and it will not be taken away from her.'" (NIV)

Philippians 4:7, "And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus." (NIV)

© 2009 by Glynnis Whitwer. All rights reserved.

Proverbs 31 Ministries

616-G Matthews-Mint Hill Road

Matthews, NC 28105

www.proverbs31.org

[Judy Harder]

December 25, 2009

Light of the World

Melanie Chitwood

"This is the message we have heard from Him and announce to you, that God is Light, and in Him there is no darkness at all." 1 John 1:5 (NAS)

Devotion:

Everywhere I look this time of year, I see lights: flashy lights adorning the mall and streets, the steady glow of candlelight during our Christmas Eve service, and the dazzling lights of outside decorations.  Of all the lights at Christmas, however, I am most drawn to the white, twinkly lights on our Christmas tree. 

A tradition I've enjoyed for years is to sit in my favorite chair in the darkened living room with only the illumination of the Christmas trees lights. I let the trees' lights remind me of the brightest light of all, Jesus Christ. 

The Bible includes numerous references to light.  As you read these verses, think about how Christ has been a light this past year, or think about what kind of light you need this Christmas season.  Let Christ's light chase away any darkness as you bathe in the splendor of His light.

As the creator of light, allow God to create light in your life. (Genesis 1:3)

When you are fearful, let His light make you brave. (Psalm 27:1)

If you need direction, His light will show you the way. (Psalm 119:105)

When you are in a difficult situation, God's light makes the rough places smooth. (Isaiah 42:16)

Do you feel ashamed or guilty?  Accept Christ's light of forgiveness. (John 3:19)

Chase away the darkness of hopelessness, loneliness, despair, aimlessness,                                     

confusion, hurt, or anger as you follow Christ, the Light of life. (John 8:12)

Be a witness to Christ's light by the way you live your life. (Matthew 5:16)

Dear Lord, Thank You for Your Light.  Renew my hope, joy, and trust in You, as all the Christmas lights remind me that You are the Light of the world. In Jesus' Name, Amen.

Related Resources:

Dear Jesus: Seeking His Light in Your Life by Sarah Young

Share on Melanie's blog how God is your light

What a Husband Needs from His Wife by Melanie Chitwood

Application Steps: 

This year start a tradition of sitting with your Bible bathed in the soft light of your Christmas tree's twinkly lights.  While you do, think about the significance of Christ's light to you and your family this Christmas season.  Use the verses in today's devotion in a private or family devotion time.

Reflections: 

Are you sure you're a child of God?  God promises you salvation and an eternal relationship with Him as you believe in His Son Jesus. If you would like to be sure of a relationship with Christ as your Friend, Savior and Light, you are only a prayer away.  He loves you so much and longs for you to rest in the security of His love.  Click here to learn more about having a relationship with Jesus.

Power Verses:

John 8:12, "'Jesus spoke to the people once more and said, 'I am the light of the world. If you follow me, you won't have to walk in darkness, because you will have the light that leads to life.'" (NLT)

© 2009 by Melanie Chitwood. All rights reserved.

Proverbs 31 Ministries

616-G Matthews-Mint Hill Road

Matthews, NC 28105

www.proverbs31.org

[Judy Harder]

December 28, 2009

The Shelter

Melissa Taylor

"He who dwells in the shelter of the Most High will rest in the shadow of the Almighty."

Psalm 91:1 (NIV)
     
Devotion:

It happened again.  My sweet ten year-old son came home from school deeply wounded.  Some kids at school who were making fun of him and calling him names.  My heart broke as I tried to comfort my worn down gift from God, my beloved son.

When Dylan was just one year-old, he had surgery on his head.  This surgery left a scar that is visible.  It really never bothered him much because he can't see it.  He's always known it was there, but since it was out of sight, it was out of mind.  Until someone else reminded him it was there, pointed out that it looked weird, and then a few others joined in.  Their words pierced my son's heart and he needed a safe place to hide.

I prayed for Dylan and tried to explain why some people say things that are hurtful.  I did all I could do to comfort him, but after all my efforts, he still came back to the same feelings of not fitting in.  I will never forget how helpless I felt as a parent as I listened to him cry for hours begging God to take away the hurt.

My husband called Dylan upstairs to our bedroom.  I noticed after a while how quiet it was in the house.  Peace seemed to have settled over our home.  I walked upstairs to make sure everything was alright and what I saw brought tears to my eyes.  There they were, father and son, tucked into a fort, a shelter, that Jeff had built for Dylan.  He called it Dylan's Den.  It was equipped with blankets, pillows, a roof, and the arms of his father.  Dylan was lying in his daddy's arms with the most peaceful and content look on his face.  The man Dylan trusts most of all came to his rescue and provided a refuge, a place of protection for him.  What a beautiful example of our Father's love.  I will never forget it as long as I live.

When the world is cruel, we need to remember that we all have our Father's shelter that we can run to.  There He waits, ready and willing for us to come into His arms to provide us with the security and protection we need.  And as our key verse states, when we dwell in His shelter, we will find rest.  God never promises that we will be free from trouble, but He does promise His help whenever we experience trouble.

Are you experiencing doubt, disappointment, fear, or trouble?  Remember that God's arms are open wide.  The security of His shelter is there for you.

Dear Lord, Thank you for being my shelter and refuge that I can always run to. Help me to seek shelter and refuge in You alone.  In Jesus' Name, Amen.

Related Resources:   

Visit Melissa's Blog for tips on how to comfort your hurting child, more power verses, and a chance to win a free book.

When Your Child is Hurting by Glynnis Whitwer

Have You Found Shelter in God's Love?

Application Steps: 

Find some time today to seek shelter in the arms of your Father.  Tell Him all your are going through and then trust Him to take care of you.

Reflections: 

When trouble comes your way, where do you seek shelter?
 
Do you trust God to protect you in all circumstances?
 
Isn't it a great feeling knowing that you have God as your refuge? 

Power Verses:

Psalm 46:1, "God is our refuge and strength, an ever-present help in trouble."  (NIV)

Psalm 18:2, "The Lord is my rock, my fortress and my deliverer; my God is my rock, in whom I take refuge.  He is my shield and the horn of my salvation, my stronghold."  (NIV)

  © 2009 by Melissa Taylor. All rights reserved.

  Proverbs 31 Ministries

616-G Matthews-Mint Hill Road

Matthews, NC 28105

www.proverbs31.org