Happy Independence Day

[Judy Harder]

Overcoming Criticism

I'm Steve Arterburn with a New Life Moment.

Who amongst us enjoys criticism? I know I don't! In fact, even when criticism is constructive, it's usually about as welcomed as an IRS audit.

But there's something even worse than criticism: and that's critical people. We all know someone like this. You know who I'm talking about—that person who meets every plan with some version of "That's impossible!" It's that person who challenges your enthusiasm or conviction to tackle a big project with a smirk or a head-wag.

But remember: nearly every advance, discovery, or act of courage is precipitated by criticism. There's really only one sure way to avoid it: by doing nothing. And what kind of choice is that—especially for people of faith. If you expect to be praised you must be willing to be criticized.

[Judy Harder]

Praying For Kids

I'm Steve Arterburn with a New Life Moment.

Being a responsible, faithful, and spiritually wise adult isn't easy.. But here's something we often overlook: it's not easy being a kid either. Sure, the issues kids face are proportionate to their age. But let's not fail to give them their proper due. Children's issues appear every bit as daunting to them as ours do to us.

The kids that God has put in our lives—whether they're children, grandchildren, extended family, neighbors, or students—need every bit of wisdom and guidance we can offer. But wisdom and guidance never stand alone. Our efforts to bring these to the children in our lives must be soaked in prayer. That's when our wisdom and guidance will become more than practical, but powerful; because it is from the Holy Spirit.

[Judy Harder]

Raising Kids

I'm Steve Arterburn with a New Life Moment.

Looking for an alternative approach to adult education? Try raising kids! You'll learn important like this:

·         A king size waterbed contains enough water to fill a 2000 sq. ft. house about 4 inches deep.

·         When you hear the toilet flush and the words "uh oh," it's already too late.

·         A ceiling fan isn't strong enough to rotate a 42-pound-boy clad in Batman underwear and Superman cape hanging by a dog leash. It is able, however, to spin a paint can quickly enough to splash paint on all four walls of a room.

·         Super glue is forever.

·         VCR's don't eject "Peanut butter and jelly" sandwiches, and.

·         Garbage bags don't make good parachutes.

If you're a parent, or have kids in your life, enjoy the daily adventures, even if it means time and energy you didn't budget for the moment.

[Judy Harder]

A Good Name

A good name is more desirable than great riches; To be esteemed is better than silver or gold. - Proverbs 22:1

How important is your name? Sports columnist Skip Bayless reported this interesting story:

Mark Cuban, owner of the NBA's Dallas Mavericks, offered sports-talk host David Kaplan $50,000 to have his name legally changed to "Dallas Maverick."  When Kaplan declined, Cuban responded by offering to pay Kaplan $100,000 and donate $100,000 to Kaplan's favorite charity if he took the name for one year.

Kaplan did some soul searching, but held firm. "I'd be saying I'd do anything for money," he explained, "and that bothers me. My name is my birthright. I'd like to preserve my integrity and credibility."

Building a reputation of integrity and reliability happens by establishing a consistent track record of sound decisions and hard work. And no amount of money or fleeting temptation is worth its undoing.

"There is no such thing as a minor lapse of integrity." - Tom Peters (1942 -      )

[Judy Harder]

Broken Dreams

"We both had dreams," they answered, "but there is no one to interpret them." Then Joseph said to them, "Do not interpretations belong to God? Tell me your dreams." - Genesis 40:8

Do you have dreams that never came true?

• Maybe you were you told you had great talent—that you should go for it and make it to the top.
• Was your dream to be a star of stage or screen?
• Maybe your dream was to live a peaceful life teaching at a university with the security of tenure, writing a few bestsellers.
• Maybe you believed that you'd grow up, easily discover the person God chose for you, marry that person, make a lot of money, have great kids who were never a problem, and continue to live happily ever after?

Think about your great dreams that haven't come true—we all have some. Yet our broken dreams are by no means the end of the story, because they hold important lessons within them.

If you have faith in Christ, your final destination is secure. Our life here on earth is a character-building journey full of opportunities—to dream, to connect, and to love one another, and when there is brokenness, to adjust your dream, to re-connect, and to continue loving one another.

"Character cannot be developed in ease and quiet. Only through experiences of trial and suffering can the soul be strengthened, vision cleared, ambition inspired and success achieved." - Helen Keller (1880-1968)

[Judy Harder]

Building A Team

Carry each other's burdens, and in this way you will fulfill the law of Christ. - Galatians 6:2

Way up on the top of the Spanish Pyrenees Mountains lives the beautiful but elusive mountain goat. Mature mountain goats are often hunted for their coats, but it's extremely difficult to get within shooting range. Why? Because the mature goat has a companion: a young goat with good eyesight, good hearing and a good sense of smell follows it wherever it goes and sounds the warning if enemies emerge.

The rhinoceros is another magnificent animal. It can run at remarkable speeds and despite its poor eyesight, is fearless in charging its enemies. But the rhino gets help. The rhino's skin is infested with ticks, which are a delicacy to a little bird that rides on its back. The birds have keen eyesight, and when they sense danger they sound the alarm, alerting the rhino.

If you'd like to live your life in Christ to the fullest, you need to team up with others too! We weren't meant to go it alone! Choose to connect and to relate to others.

"Talent wins games, but teamwork and intelligence wins championships." - Michael Jordan (1963-    )

[Judy Harder]

Calling

With this in mind, we constantly pray for you, that our God may count you worthy of his calling, and that by his power he may fulfill every good purpose of yours and every act prompted by your faith. - 2 Thessalonians 1:11

My friend was an English teacher at a Christian high school. One day while talking to her students about what they want to do in life, she asked what considerations might motivate their career selection. Money was the top answer, followed by talent, ability, and a general liking for the type of work. "Are you saying," she asked her class, "that none of you have considered your future occupation in light of what God would have you do?"

Sadly, many people think that unless they've received "a calling" to become a minister or missionary, God can pretty much stay out of the career picture. But God calls dentists, salesclerks, insurance salesmen, truck drivers, moms, and corporate executives. Whatever your occupation might be, see it as a calling from God. And recognize that our main calling in life is to be Christ-like, no matter what we do, who we're with, or where we are.

"God does not call those that are equipped. He equips those whom He has called." - Smith Wigglesworth (1859-1947)

[Judy Harder]

Our Only Real Hope

He has caused his wonders to be remembered;
The Lord is gracious and compassionate.
He provides food for those who fear him;
He remembers his covenant forever. - Psalm 111:4-5

Donna and her husband had two babies and barely got by on the tiny pension he received from the Navy. It took more than half their income just to pay the rent. Needless to say, the money often ran out before the month did.

One month, their financial situation was so bad Donna had no money left to buy laundry soap. She got on her knees and prayed, "God, I've never needed you like I need you now. I have nothing, and I need you to provide soap to wash these diapers."

Hearing a noise at the front door, Donna got up to see who it was. Someone had left a promotional sample of soap on her doorstep. Some would call the provision a coincidence, but Donna knew it was an act of God – a "divine" coincidence.

Are you dealing with difficult circumstances? Have you talked to God about your challenges, and your needs? God wants you to come to Him and to rely upon Him.

"Fear knocked at the door. Faith answered. No one was there." - Old saying

[Judy Harder]

Perseverance

Blessed is the man who perseveres under trial, because when he has stood the test, he will receive  the crown of life that God has promised to those who love him. - James 1:12

Soon after making a decision to follow Christ, a young Nigerian named Daniel returned to his Muslim village. He was excited about his new faith. . .  the people of his village were not. Furious at him, the women of the village beat him and left him for dead.

When he regained consciousness the following day, he decided he must not have been clear in explaining his new faith. So he went back to the village and witnessed again. The women beat him and left him for dead again. This time he remained unconscious for two days.

When he awoke, he again assumed he hadn't expressed himself well. So he returned a third time. This time the village women broke into tears at his perseverance, and eventually the good news of Christ gained a foothold in that place.

If you're weary in sharing the good news of Jesus with friends, family, or your kids—take heart. And remember, we share Christ by our actions and how we conduct our lives—as much as we do with our words.

"Perseverance is a great element of success. If you only knock long enough and loud enough at the gate, you are sure to wake up somebody." - Henry Wadsworth Longfellow (1807-1882)

[Judy Harder]

Struggle

Now if we are children, then we are heirs—heirs of God and co-heirs with Christ, if indeed we share in his sufferings  in order that we may also share in his glory. - Romans 8:17

Either outright or subtly many people who follow Jesus and walk with God think they shouldn't struggle. We think God will give us lives of ease and comfort once we decide to follow Christ. The idea is: If we're good Christians, we'll have it all together. If we have enough faith, our conflicts and problems would resolve themselves. When you come to Christ, your problems disappear. In fact, many churches will communicate that very message week in and week out. As a result, those who attend those churches hide their struggles, because they mistakenly equate struggles with a lack of faith.

But the Christian walk wasn't meant to be a stroll through the park. Following Jesus won't remove struggles from your life; in fact it often adds to the struggle. Some of the most committed Christians have lived some of the most difficult lives. The Bible goes so far as to tell us to expect trials and difficulties, and to be joyful when we face them.

With Christ, you can do that. On your own, you're destined to fail.

"If you are going through hell, keep going." - Winston Churchill (1874-1965)