And then it is winter

[Jo McDonald]

And it's winter before we know it....

You know, time has a way of moving quickly and catching you unaware of the passing years.

It seems just yesterday that I was young, just married and embarking on my new life with my mate.   And yet in a way, it seems like eons ago, and I wonder where all the years went.  I know that I lived them all...

And I have glimpses of how it was back then and of all my hopes and dreams... But, here it is..the winter of my life and it catches me by surprise... How did I get here so fast? Where did the years go and where did my babies go? And where did my youth go?

I remember well.. seeing older people through the years and thinking that those older people were years away from me and that winter was so far off that I could not fathom it or imagine fully what it would be like...  But, here it is...my friends are retired and really getting gray...they move slower and I see an older person now. Lots are in better shape than me... but, I see the great change...  Not like the ones that I remember who were young and vibrant... but, like me, their age is beginning to show and we are now those older folks that we used to see and never thought we'd be.

Each day now, I find that just getting a shower is a real target for the day!  And taking a nap is not a treat anymore...it's mandatory!  Cause if I don't on my own free will...I just fall asleep where I sit!

And so, now I enter into this new season of my life unprepared for all the aches and pains and the loss of strength and ability to go and do things that I wish I had done but never did!!

But, at least I know, that though the winter has come, and I'm not sure how long it will last...this I know, that when it's over...its over....Yes , I have regrets. There are things I wish I hadn't done ,,,,,things I should have done, but indeed, there are many things I'm happy to have done.  It's all in a lifetime....

So, if you're not in your winter yet...let me remind you, that it will be here faster than you think. So, whatever you would like to accomplish in your life please do it quickly!  Don't put things off too long!!

Life goes by quickly.  So, do what you can today, as you can never be sure whether this is your winter or not!

You have no promise that you will see all the seasons of your life...so, live for good today and say all the things that you want your loved ones to remember...and hope that they appreciate and love you for all the things that you have done for them in all the years past!!

"Life is a gift to you. The way you live your life is your gift to those who come after.

Make it a fantastic one."

LIVE IT WELL!!----ENJOY TODAY!!!!-----DO SOMETHING FUN!!!----BE HAPPY!!!----BE THANKFUL!!!!!

[Roma Jean Turner]

Thanks Jo, that was great. 

[Teresa]

That was wonderful. I liked that so much. 

[Rudy Taylor]

Yes, yes!

Beautiful, Jo!

[Ms Bear]

There is a time for everything.  Don't wait for winter to do all the things you want to do, at least not for the first time.  And if you had fun doing it the first time you can look forward to doing it again in the winter of your life.  Sometimes the anticipation of doing something is almost as good as doing it and if you can't do again you at least have wonderful memories.  I feel sorry for the people who don't have good memories because the didn't take the time to make them.

[greatguns]

You are so right.  Somethings I'd like to do again, but is case I don't, at least I did it once.

[Diane Amberg]

Hey, Jo just because there is frost on the pumpkin doesn't mean there isn't heat in the furnace. You may take a little longer to start your engine, but it sure works fine once it's warmed up!

[Jo McDonald]

That is right, Diane ---BUT if it ever overheats - and blows a gasket, I'm done for. 

[Sarge]

Ah yes. Life is like a roll of toilet paper; the closer  you get to the end, the faster it goes.  You gotta be tough to get old, it ain't for sissies.