Jersey: my rule of thumb is, if i can mark it easily with my thumbnail it is soft enough. I also have a lead hardness tester for more accurate results, but don't use it much anymore. After years of casting every week and dealing with all types of lead you get a feel for the hardness without having to use a tester on everything.
Slim's Rule Of Thumb
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The more tin &/or Antimony, usually giving a harder alloy, the lighter the bullet and the larger the diameter. Not very accurate, but useful. I find that wheel weight metal and a mixture of range lead give about the same resulting weight and size. Sometimes I try to sort my range lead by type and appearance;
e.g; If it looks like a HBWC it should be soft
If it looks like a hardcast magnum bullet and has retained its shape it is probably harder.
Melted out cores of jacketed bullets just might be softer
I've been casting so long without a hardness tester that I'm sure I can manage without it for awhile longer!