The only "special" equipment you need for black powder reloading is a bp measure such as the Lyman 55 with the drop tube or the Hornady bp measure.
Main thing to remember is not to allow any air space between the powder charge and the base of the bullet.
You will need to get ahold of some over powder wads, .030 fiber wads are a good place to start.
Make sure your bullets are lubed with a good black powder bullet lube.
Loading for the cartridges you mentioned, annealling , really isn't necessarry.
Unless you are loading for competition in long range calibers the drop tube is not needed for typical CAS.
I load .45lc, .38lc and .38sp using the powder measure that came in my Lee Anniversary kit. Just keep a record of the setting you settle on for each bullet/case combination you experiment with.
Easiest method is to make a best guess setting, drop a load in your case and then insert a dowel into the case until it rests against the powder and measure using your thumbnail at the case rim. Keeping your thumbnail in position lift the dowel out and place the flat bottom of your bullet against the thumbnail alongside the dowel length and try for about 1/8th inch difference between the dowel end and the crimping groove of your bullet of choice. Set your die to seat to the crimp groove, of course. You'll hear the subtle crunch when you seat the bullet.
In a revolver you can use just about any of the bullet designs as long as you use a lube designed for BP. (Essentially some combination of Crisco and wax.) You can melt the 'crayon'-type lube out of bullets intended for smokeless powder and relube with a BP mixture if that is all you can find.
If using in a rifle, then you must choose a bullet with the huge lube grooves designed into them, such as the Big Lube, in order to make sure there is enough lube being carried to the end of the bore.
For most cartridge loading 2F should do fine. Use a fairly solid crimp. On pistol calibers the brand of primer makes no difference, really, so buy what you can find. If loading for long range in the rifle calibers there may be some merit to picking one of the 'magnum' primers as there is a taller column of powder being ignited.